someone somewhere said that long ago!
And I guess I can feel the depth of this quote today..
You can't chase people who are meant to leave your life,
all you are born to do is to chase your dreams.
Dreams that would never fade no matter how adverse the times get,
some people do enter our lives but that doesn't mean their presence has a forever trade mark.
You learn lessons..you get hurt..you shed tears..
but then there has to be some end to the darkness of life..
There has to be a time when finally you reach your saturation point..
and that's when you become the" real you"
Everyone lives phases of life for someone ...part of life you call it..love,attachments,care,affection..
All these are part of life aren't they?
But then their does lie an individuality in each bond of life.
You can give up everything in a relationship..but self respect?
A true bond will never ever take you to a stage where your self respect is at stake.
So when that saturation point comes in your life...it's the time to say "pack up"
How difficult and painful it can be to quit relationships...how much it can effect you in near future is something you can't judge..all you can do is looking at the brighter side of the scenario..
You learn to let go things..you learn to let go people..and most of all you learn to let go the past
"IF you are not happy from within.you cannot keep someone else happy too"
Unconditional love..it exists ,but then there lies the thing called expectations too...
For me expectations have been always from people I have considered special..
You don't expect from strangers..do you?
It is Just you who knows how much painful it is to let go...but then you know its for the betterment isn't it?
Bad times don't stay forever...good times come too !
God isn't cruel..he is a mere tester..he tests your patience!
With time we all grow up...we grow mature rather..
Life is too short to chase people who don't value you,somewhere,someone does know your real worth...and that someone is on his/her way :)
Life isn't about the final destination..it is about the journey ..the journey you got to cherish..
Happiness,sadness,love,hate,desires,ambitions,ups and downs,traumas and joys,
Its all a mix :) The mix you can never judge or predict..all you can do is accept it gracefully :)
Not all flavours can be bitter after all..sweetness is destined to come some or the other day :)
*p.s It takes huge courage to speak,understand and follow the logic called 'LET GO",but time is the best healer..you forgive,you trust,you get ditched,you trust again...the life cycle continues..
you can't stop forever after all..let go..live the phase!!! Live the sadness,it taught you and gave you thing called sensitivity,cherish happiness,it made you realize the charm of life,appreciate people who left,they made you stronger,love people who put an effort to make you feel special :) :)